Timothy Abube(uses BlackSingles.com)[email protected]
Complaint 30684 Details

Iwas on Blacksingles.com for a short time on 8/14/2011 this one guy kept emailing me and sending me flirts but he had nonphoto up.I do respond to guys without photos but he kept sending them to me and said i can request his photo. He was listed as living in Upstate N.Y. When i finally decided to answer him three days later he sent me two photos and a very nice message. I originally do not do long distance relationships but i lived in NY all my life until i recently moved to Delaware 3 years ago. Timothy told me he was glad i answered because he was leaving to go to Ghana West Africafrom N.Y so i said okay when are you coming back and how long will you be gone. He then told he was visiting NY and he really lived in Ghana because his mom lives there. We talk for two months. He said if me and him got along good he will move to Delaware for Christmas to be with me. I told him to first come visit me before that he said okay. The date that he said he was booking his flight was Sept 20,2011 because he needed to have his fare to come back which was $2,023 round trip from Africa i said okay. He sent me flowers,candy and two small teddy bears and he called me often on a phone that had a card with pay minutes on it so he could spoil me until he gets here. He kept on saying he is short of money for this and for that and can i help him out. He has to pay $85.00 for an examination to enter and exit everytime he leaves his country,he has to pay for his visa and so on. He asked me for $500 then $650 and finally $800.I had the money but i told him i did not have it,and that i could only give him some he told ok. He told me to wire by Money Gram which i did. On Sept 20 he called me and said he was in Delaware on his way to see me. He never showed up he emailed the next day and said he is here but the cab driver robbed him and threw him out of the cab. I asked where he was and if he reported this to the police he said no but would not tell me where he was. He emailed me again the next day and said his phone ran out of minutes so i told him to call me collect and i would accept the call he said ok. He emailed me two days later and said he could not find a phone. I told him if you are in Delaware where are you he said he is at the bus stop at 9.30 p.m. but the buses here stop running at 6p.m. I asked him what bus stop he was at, he refused to answer and told me just come pick him up. I realize he was lieing so i told no i am not coming to take a cab and i would pay for it. He told me if i don't come to a bus stop with no number or street given he was going to a hotel and then back home because his mom wired him some money(another lie he never left home in the first place). Then he emails me and says he is in the hospital so i told him to let his mom or who ever prevented him from really coming to go visit him plus i told him i did not believe him either. He said my friends and family turned me against him but the funny thing they never met him. He emailed me for 3 days still lieing and i refused to answer him so he finally stopped.Now he back on Blacksingles. com with a whole profile (sbr530) saying he lives in North Carolina looking for some other woman to make a fool out and scam her out of some money by saying he left North Carolina to go back to Ghana and he will come to visit her.The scam occurred around the 10 of September before he due to come because he needed the rest of the money to book his flight.