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this man i met on are you interested. said he was from tacoma,washington. he seemed so sincere. thought i was kind of odd that he would have an oriental lady as his profile pic. he wrote me every day. he said he was half american ,because of his dad living in the states and half irish from his mom side. he had lived in ireland for 25 years then came to the states to get his arts degree. said he owned a furniture business. sells furnitures for homes and companies. said he had been widowed for 2 years. said he lost his wife in a car accident. red flag right there. casualities to draw you in. having compassion for him. said he has a son named Richard. he asked me to answer a love question list. i told him as soon as he filled his out i would answer. low and behold !! we had so much in common. he said he had responded to other women, but wasn't interested. he said to me that there was something special about me. well let me tell you ladies. beware !!! he is such a smooth talker, he will have you falling in love with him. the emails he wrote me were so wonderful , heartfelt, meaningful, you would just fall for it. hate to say it but he had me. my heart that is. three days after we were emailing each other he said i an email. i did a job 3 months ago in Malaysia but had to come back to the states because of problems with the Malaysian govt. and he told me that they had contacted him and he had to let the next day but he would take his laptop so we could keep in touch. got email 2 days later. said he made it. oh by the way. he said at the beginning that he would like my email address and that his would email me and send some pictures. i aked if he was on facebook twice. never got an answer. i asked him for his phone number. he kept questioning me why, i am in Malaysia, i wouldn't be home to answer the phone. another red flag. wanting to know what you do for work, etc. red flag !!! 2 days ago he said he loved me and want me to be his wife and mother to Richard. i thought a dream come true, however i was still leary. i thank God i was. when i asked about his phone number again. he got really upset with me saying well if you can't trust me, than you should not talk to me again. now mind you ladies. if this man loved me so much. he would have assured me that he understands where i'm coming from for having a little doubt. no ....... he was upset !!!!! red flag again !!!! i peaded with him to forgive me, knew now this was a scam. he said ok hon as long as you trust me. than he brought up the it's Richards ( oh by the way, he is 10 years old) birthday this coming weekend. this was yesterday i was informed 3/27/12. he said can you send him something for his birthday ? i said what ? he said likes a playstation 3. i didn't expect that answer. i said however, i have never bought a gift for someone whom i haven't even met yet. well i guess you know !!!!! he got so defensive on me. if you love me and Richard. there should be no questions on getting him a gift. right there is no trust and unfaithful. i just shock my head... when i said i would sent him a card he said just never mind. if you send him a card and no gift how do you think he is going to feel. oh forgot to tell you girls, supposingly i had chatted with his son 2 days ago on yahoo messenger. anyone can answer a chat and you not know who it is. i also requested a photo of Richard explaining i have 2 grown children. he send me one photo of a young boy wearing a baseball cap,standing on the right side of a table which a small stuffed alligator setting on it. also the photos of thomas, a closeup with this handsome blue eyed great big smile on one with a ladies head on left side of him. 2 photos of him in white shirt.and one with him standing there arms held up looks like a mall. Please ladies don't fall for this. if you are still sending him money stop. heal your heart. there is someone special out there that you are more deserving of. we have to spread this to as many women as possible. tell family, friends, co workers, church members. we as Christian Warriors need to help one another out. if you wish to email me please do so. May God Bless you all and be with you to protect us from scammers like [email protected] Betty